niallslittle

Anonymous asked:

I was looking at your Instagram and couldn't help but notice that practically every single picture was a picture of you or you half naked. You are constantly complaining about how your body looks and then you post hundreds of pictures of your naked body. Do you have respect for yourself? Are you obsessed with yourself? I just want to know bc none of it makes sense. I know it's your ig but c'mon have some respect.

niallslittle answered:

This is the single most stupid message I ever recieved in my whole life hahahahaha I have no wifi right now so I hope this gets through but do you realise that /your/ message makes absolute no sense? Self respect has nothing to do with nudity or showing my body or talking about my sexuality etc., I do respect my body very much which is why after about 16 years of self hatred, I learned to love it despite my flaws and occasional doubts. I respect myself and I respect my body which is why I do not hide it when I feel like showing it. The fact you fucking believe just because I have confidence issues ( that mostly come from my mental illness/dismorphophobic thoughts/eating disorder ) I will cover my body and bathe in self pity drives me up the wall. I can’t even find the right words to express how angry yet amused I am about this message. Do you think that a person in my position should dwell on their sadness and treat their body like a tumor beneath the head? Uh uh. I might get sad and insecure about my looks, but I am not in a fight with my wonderful body. I love it. I hate it and I love it. It is my body, it is me. I respect my body and I treat my body well because I AM my body. And I am my soul and my heart and my brain. My brain, unlike yours, is aware of the fact that the accusation girls who wear revealing clothes or post sexy or simply cute nudes/semi-nudes lack self respect is based on sexist beliefs that should be a part of history already. I can post a fucking close up of my wet pussy if I feel like it and that wouldn’t mean I don’t respect myself. I want to enjoy my body to the fullest. It’s been too long, I wasted years on literally hiding in the flat, wearing XXXL clothes, not looking in mirrors. Starting to love myself meant starting to show myself. To me. Everyone defines that in their own way of course. And I am not saying self respect determines to show your body if you don’t want to! It is okay not to do it if you don’t feel like it. But don’t let society dictate you what to do. Self respect means treating your body the best possible way. And to me, taking 6089 selfies a day, posing in underwear or short clothes, talking about sex, posting tons and tons of pics of me, is a fun way to find beauty in what I despised and to express myself in front of an audience. It makes me feel good and I’m not gonna let a misinformed girl with no idea of feminism or body positivity, ED recovery and self love take that away from me. Please inform yourselt a little bit. My body, my choice. Just cause a person is insecure doesn’t mean they will hide their body. Just because a person is depressed doesn’t mean they never smile. Just because a person is always sad doesn’t make being happy impossible for them. Asking me if I have any self respect… Hell yes I do. And I would still have self respect if I got DP by two hot guys on tape if it was my choice. I do, in fact, have narcissistic character traits, after all I’m histrionic but that doesn’t make me a bad person or “obsessed with myself”, it just makes me who I am and I am happy that I am myself. 40 years from now when my ass will start to sag and I’ll get wrinkly I won’t regret I enjoyed myself when I was young. And I promise to even then show my 60 year old body when I feel like it and love it like I love it now. And so should every other girl. I hope that none of those who read this believe that self respect is in any way related to hiding yourself and “saving” yourself and the view of your body. After all, it is just a body. But it is yours and it is you and everyone deserves to love themselves. So shut up and know your facts. Bye

gagginiall:

ok first of all how dare you 

how dA R E Y O U ????????????? IS SHTI S AFUCKINGI JOEKE BC ?????? WHATS SO BAD ABOUT SHOWING SKIN OHYMGIOD D ITS A FEMALE ASS BETTER GET THAT OFF OF THE INTERNE TOF MYHOSBGYOBD BOOBS!!! A GIRL SHOWING OFF HER BODY SHE CLEARLY HAS NO SELF RESPECT OF COURSE !!!! OH ??? THATS A  BOY IN THE CITY NOT WEARING A SHIRT ???? NO PROBLEM???? A GIRL POSTING NUDES??? WRONG!!! MAKE FUN OF HER!! WTAHAT THE FUCK IM SO MAD HOW LITTLE CONFIDENCE DOES A PERSON HAVE TO PUT OTHERS DOWN FOR BEING PROUD OF THEIR BODY AFTER THEY SUFFERED FORM A FUCKING EATING DISORDER FOR YEARS??!??!!! GR EA T IDEA MAN

mia is hot shit and this is a collage of my face while i read this ask goodbye 

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petition to rename the usa ‘south canada’

what about alaska

are we then normal canada

canada a bit to the left

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What about South America? Is that just America? Or South South Canada?

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i cried my ass of laughing

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WARM CANADA

i caN’T BREATHE OH MY GOD

I’m not even from Canada but I approve this change of names

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demonizedhumanity:

missxdelaney:

itseasytoremember:

there are people on this website with children

there are people on this website who have their life together

there are people on this website who are award winning novelists

today i tried to smile at someone with water in my mouth and almost died

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I’m on my phone so idk what that gif is but i have feeling it’s either spn related or it’s the gif of harry smiling at cho

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Let’s make Dean in gym shorts the most reblogged picture on Tumblr.

hypnoticcastiel:

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“Challenge accepted!” —SPN fandom.

omg this is still going

IT’S A RULE TO REBLOG EVERY TIME IT SHOWS UP ON YOUR DASH.

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Third time reblogging it today, and I regret nothing

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Broke 5 Million!

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WE HAVE TO KEEP GOING image

why have i never added my AU-version…

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